perspective is everything.

Economics was the study of ‘the household’ and thus making it a social science in nature.
It ultimately boils down to relative perspective. Rory Sutherland spoke on TED that perspective is everything:

His arguments are very compelling and I agree that perspective is everything!
How we each view and perceive every given time and moment is crucial to our development. There is a lot of talk about positive thinking, but positive thinking is actually the second step. The first is awareness.

Being aware of an issue or an obstacle is essential to taking the next step. So how does being aware relate to perspective? -Well everything thing that we see, touch, feel, smell and relate to is constantly being judged by us and is a perspective, to which each and every one of us has a varying perspective. It is like the value of $1 is different relative to the wealth of that person holding that $1.

Step 1: Be aware of a situation and understand that your current perspective and it is your perspective (even though others may share the same perspective,) you must understand and be aware that you  own that particular perspective regarding the subject matter at hand.

Step 2: Now that you are aware of the situation and/or circumstance, take a deep breath and decide on how you wish to decide on your perspective of the subject matter at hand. Take a simple computer keyboard (for instance), it complements the usage of your computer, but to another is a tool to hack into a mainframe and to a gamer its the differential of speed and sensitivity to winning a global gaming competition. Thus, now that you are aware that your perspective is yours only, how will go about deciding the perspective of the subject matter.

Step 3: +ve, or positive thoughts. Look at the glass half full and realise the opportunity of the subject matter. Realise that the computer keyboard is an opportunity to do wondrous things on your computer, from programming to surfing the internet and expanding your knowledge.

Step 4: Right click, save file, copy and apply the systematic process to every possible step in your life.

You will soon realise that your perspective is easier to control than you think and it would ultimately give you more control over your life; especially when accomplishing what you want to!

admitting vulnerability. true admirability.

“…i am enough…”

Weakness does not exist if you choose to accept that you have none.

Almost every aspect of our lives makes us believe that we are inferior and we are subject to the inferiority complex.

Those who act and behave in such a way that they are better than others, are those who suffer from the inferiority complex the most.

Seeking misery or mistakes in others to feel good about oneself.

Brene Brown captures the essence and importance of us. Insecurities, neglect, inferiority, shame, regret… they are all symptoms of vulnerability. We choose to shut out the importance of loving ourselves. And instead we seek drama externally so that we do not need to question ourselves and decide what really makes us happy.

Being vulnerable is not a weakness or strength. its something you have to embrace in life. When you can be vulnerable, you are able to ‘breakdown’ or dis-assemble yourself. -only then will you know who you are.

A watch is an object that reveals the time. Some of us are fascinated by how it even works without a battery. However, if you dis-assembles it, understand it and re-construct it, one can find ways to improve it over time. The watch would be solid and durable when put together, but vulnerable when it is dis-assembled. However, one can only understand and comprehend the watch when it is dis-assembled.

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